My tendency to focus on the positives have basically served me well. It wasn't always that way. I have been very critical of myself. Sometimes beyond the limits, and put a hell of burden on my self-esteem. However, I learned to control the thoughts and focus more on the good. It is via these self-reflections that I tend to think that I lived life better. Stress does not become depression. I learned how to snap it off. Then again, I still dwell on the gloomy side. As mentioned, it is part of the learning curve.
Sorry for the digression. Setting things into perspective and getting it into motion is important. Hence, I would like to think a new year is a good start. Resolutions are deemed cliches. And yes I did think they are just bullocks. However, to be able to say "I want to try this shit out this new year and better myself" could work. I know I sound like Gollum talking to himself. But I gonna give planning a chance.
1. Completing the Masters
Well, this is not a new plan. But to actually complete it is crucial. I would love to see that I succeed on this. I believed it opens new doors and windows. So, being serious on the course is a must-do. I love what I picked and I am sure I will see this through.
2. Mastering Kendo
Yet another opportunity for me to delve into something new. At this time of life, I tend to stick to things I am familiar with. I have actually pondered to leave it be after some trial sessions. Three months into this thing, and I already have my shinai and uniform. That should signal progress. And I don't think I would want to discontinue it. It is good to learn new stuff, that's what life is suppose to be; to be able to explore new challenges. Who knows what I can do with the new skills I have acquired.
3. Lead an healthy life.
I believe that I am no health freak. However, to lead one is on the agenda. I have seen my heavier days and it could be quite disorientating. My recent kidney problems gave me an enhanced motivation to be more serious about it. I used to scorn gyms and I have taken myself by surprise that I actually joined one last year and now I actually frequents it. Things change and I have to go along. There is no way that I can play football every evening like I used to. Hence, this is the part where I should do some alterations and adaptations.
4. Travelling
This involves money and a department that I wish I could enforce better with lots of greenbacks. I think I can make this happen via some part-time jobs. Also, my perspective of my energy level seems to always halt me back. Time to get that changed as well. Destinations? Scotland is top of my list. The Nordic countries, the Iberian peninsular, Iceland, Ireland and some parts of Eastern Europe should complete it. I would not have mind if I got a job in the US or Australia. It would be great as well if it is in Africa too. I do not have any luggage on me and adaptability is one of my strength. I can't see why I shouldn't work and travel abroad.
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Isle of Skye could be a great destination for a Scotland trip |
It might sound general, but it's a start. Putting it in black and white makes it more desirable and concrete to achieve it. Cheers to 2013.
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